Trump congratulated himself for something he hadn't done, so the White House had to make it true

The president hadn't personally contacted every family of fallen service members despite making that claim.
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Trump congratulated himself for something he hadn't done, so the White House had to make it true
President Donald Trump put the White House in a familiar position again this week. Credit: AP/REX/Shutterstock

Several Americans received something unexpected from the White House this week: a rush-delivered condolence letter from President Donald Trump written to the loved ones of people who died in military service.

After a week of controversy that pivoted around whether Trump -- as he claimed -- actually did personally contact every bereaved family, The Atlantic confirmed that some received expedited condolence letters in the days after the president's remarks.

While Timothy Eckels Sr. had heard from Sen. John McCain and Defense Secretary James Mattis after his son died aboard the U.S.S. John S. McCain on Aug. 21, he'd heard nothing from the president -- until Oct. 20, when a UPS package containing a condolence letter arrived at his home.

The package, according to The Atlantic, was dated October 18, a day after Trump said in an interview, “I think I've called every family of someone who's died.” Trump had also wrongly claimed that past presidents, including Barack Obama, didn't call mourning families.

That lie triggered an outpouring of anger from former members of the Obama administration.

“Honestly, I feel the letter is reactionary to the media storm brewing over how these things have been handled,” Eckels said. He described the letter as "respectful" and "genuine." The Atlantic also identified two other families that received expedited letters this week.

The White House declined to answer questions from The Atlantic about how families had been contacted and comforted. The Associated Press found that at least 10 relatives of the 43 service members who've died this year had not received a phone call or a letter.

The administration has been on the defensive since a Democratic congresswoman from Florida shared details from Trump's condolence call to the widow of Sgt. La David Johnson, who was killed earlier this month in Niger. Rep. Frederica Wilson claimed Trump said, "he knew what he signed up for, but I guess it still hurt" during the call.

Trump, of course, didn't hold back on Twitter, calling Wilson "wacky" and a "disaster" for Democrats.

Meanwhile, Johnson's mother, who heard the call as well, confirmed Wilson's account.

“President Trump did disrespect my son and my daughter and also me and my husband,” Cowanda Jones-Johnson, told The Washington Post.

Rebecca Ruiz
Rebecca Ruiz
Senior Reporter

Rebecca Ruiz is a Senior Reporter at Mashable. She frequently covers mental health, digital culture, and technology. Her areas of expertise include suicide prevention, screen use and mental health, parenting, youth well-being, and meditation and mindfulness. Rebecca's experience prior to Mashable includes working as a staff writer, reporter, and editor at NBC News Digital and as a staff writer at Forbes. Rebecca has a B.A. from Sarah Lawrence College and a masters degree from U.C. Berkeley's Graduate School of Journalism.

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