Gatsbying is the newest and fanciest way to catch your crush's attention

Sending a secret Snapchat signal has never felt so fancy.
 By 
Cassie Murdoch
 on 

You know when you post something on Snapchat or Instagram hoping to get the attention of your crush? Now we have the perfect name for that.

Reddit user Cupcake Warrior just blew our collective mind with this post in the subreddit r/ShowerThoughts:

"Posting a Snapchat to your story and then waiting for that one specific person to watch it, is the modern day equivalent of Gatsby throwing elaborate parties seeking Daisy's attention."

Original image replaced with Mashable logo
Original image has been replaced. Credit: Mashable

Like the best shower thoughts, once you've heard it, you go yessssss and realize it's what you've known all along but just haven't been able to put into the right words.

Now you do! Next time you send out a carefully curated signal across the social channel, hoping to catch the eye of your Daisy, you're Gatsby-ing.

It feels kind of fancy, doesn't it? And thank goodness we're moving into the literary realm for our new dating slang. The spookiness of all this ghosting and haunting was getting a little old.

Original image replaced with Mashable logo
Original image has been replaced. Credit: Mashable

Though it's worth bearing in mind that it didn't work out all that well in the end for Gatsby himself. So don't sit there staring at the green light for too long...

Topics Reddit

Mashable Image
Cassie Murdoch

Cassie Murdoch is Mashable's Culture Editor.. Before coming here, Cassie was Senior Culture Writer at Vocativ. She previously wrote for Jezebel and The Hairpin. Cassie spends most of her time thinking about and consuming cheese in all its glorious forms.

Mashable Potato

Recommended For You
Your Netflix app is going to change as the company competes with Instagram for your attention
netflix logo on an app on a phone screen

The new Hydrow Arc Rower offers a great indoor winter workout
the Hydrow Arc rower on a black mat in a living room

This $67 tool handles meeting notes while you pay attention
Pen on tablet


Amazon's latest Echo Show 8 and 11 just hit new record-low prices
Amazon Echo Show 8 and Echo Show 11 side by side

Trending on Mashable
NYT Connections hints today: Clues, answers for April 3, 2026
Connections game on a smartphone

Wordle today: Answer, hints for April 3, 2026
Wordle game on a smartphone

Google launches Gemma 4, a new open-source model: How to try it
Google Gemma


NYT Strands hints, answers for April 3, 2026
A game being played on a smartphone.
The biggest stories of the day delivered to your inbox.
These newsletters may contain advertising, deals, or affiliate links. By clicking Subscribe, you confirm you are 16+ and agree to our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.
Thanks for signing up. See you at your inbox!