William and Harry tell Kate what it was really like after they lost their mum

"We've never really talked about losing a mum at such a young age."
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The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and Prince Harry have spoken candidly about the impact of Princess Diana's death on their mental health in a new film as part of their Heads Together campaign to end mental health stigma. In the film above -- streamed on Facebook Live on the Royal Family's account -- the three royals talk about the various pressures they've experienced in life, and the importance of speaking openly about mental health.

Prince Harry says he thinks people who've experienced loss at a young age should talk about it sooner, rather than bottling it up.

"We've never really talked about losing a mum at such a young age," he says to William. "When you speak to other people's families, you think, wow I don't want them to have to go through the same thing." William says that over the years he and his brother haven't talked enough about their mother. WHile Harry adds that thinking in that way can be really damaging. "I always thought to myself, what's the point in bringing up something that's only gonna make you sad? It ain't gonna change it. It ain't gonna bring her back," he says. Kate says she thinks it's "incredible" how strong the two princes are, and how they've been able to cope. "I put that down to your really early years, childhood experience. But, also the relationship you've got. You're amazingly close," said Kate. "We have been brought closer because of the circumstances as well," agrees William.

Topics Mental Health

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Rachel Thompson
Features Editor

Rachel Thompson is the Features Editor at Mashable. Rachel's second non-fiction book The Love Fix: Reclaiming Intimacy in a Disconnected World is out now, published by Penguin Random House in Jan. 2025. The Love Fix explores why dating feels so hard right now, why we experience difficult emotions in the realm of love, and how we can change our dating culture for the better.

A leading sex and dating writer in the UK, Rachel has written for GQ, The Guardian, The Sunday Times Style, The Telegraph, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Stylist, ELLE, The i Paper, Refinery29, and many more.

Rachel's first book Rough: How Violence Has Found Its Way Into the Bedroom And What We Can Do About It, a non-fiction investigation into sexual violence was published by Penguin Random House in 2021.


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