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New dating term, 'whelming,' emerges to describe irritating behaviors

Humble-bragging about being inundated by suitors isn't sexy.
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New dating term, 'whelming,' emerges to describe irritating behaviors
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Formally defined by Patia Braithwaite, the term gained prominence from the film 10 Things I Hate About You, and seems to be gaining traction again.

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