Muslim vlogger wants women to try wearing a hijab for 15 minutes to understand exclusion

"Come on guys, it's literally just a piece of cloth on my head."
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Muslim vlogger wants women to try wearing a hijab for 15 minutes to understand exclusion
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A Muslim mum is asking other women to wear the hijab for 15 minutes so they can see what it's like to experience exclusion and abuse. She says she finds it hard to make friends with other mums because people can't see past her hijab.

In a video posted by Channel Mum -- a YouTube community for mothers -- Nilufa Dahlia, from Brighton, UK, said that she was verbally abused for wearing her headscarf in a supermarket.

"Come on guys, it's literally just a piece of cloth on my head," said Dahlia.

"See past a scarf, see the person," Dahlia added. She said she doesn't want to feel lonely, or isolated or misunderstood because of a "piece of cloth." She explained that every hijabi woman has her own personal reason for wearing a scarf.

"For me it shows that I'm a Muslim woman. It's to allow people to acknowledge my personality over my looks," says Dahlia.

Dahlia is setting other women a challenge so they can see what it feels like "to be looked at differently" and to be "pointed at, whispered about or even abused."

"Simply tie a scarf or a shawl, anything, and go out. I won't ask you to walk a mile in my shoes, but half a mile? That'll do," Dahlia said.

Rachel Thompson, sits wearing a dress with yellow florals and black background.
Rachel Thompson
Features Editor

Rachel Thompson is the Features Editor at Mashable. Rachel's second non-fiction book The Love Fix: Reclaiming Intimacy in a Disconnected World is out now, published by Penguin Random House in Jan. 2025. The Love Fix explores why dating feels so hard right now, why we experience difficult emotions in the realm of love, and how we can change our dating culture for the better.

A leading sex and dating writer in the UK, Rachel has written for GQ, The Guardian, The Sunday Times Style, The Telegraph, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Stylist, ELLE, The i Paper, Refinery29, and many more.

Rachel's first book Rough: How Violence Has Found Its Way Into the Bedroom And What We Can Do About It, a non-fiction investigation into sexual violence was published by Penguin Random House in 2021.


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